The Good Girls Guide to Giving Head.
Hello Fam!! Well. Today I saw a tweet that @__ARROGANT RTed that hurt my soul:
This saddens me folks.
There is NO way or reason that pleasing your mate should be ‘boring’. I have to guess that she is doing it with a heavy heart or some regret in her spirit. I weep for her.
Rule number one is that in order to suck a good dick, you have to be absolutely commited to providing the BEST blow job that man has ever received.
Guess who is gonna help you with the basics?? ME!!
Try to follow me, okay??
- LISTEN TO HIS BODY FIRST.
When you touch a man’s penis, if he is somewhat stimulated, he will react. Listen to his body. Start with slow strokes. Kiss him. I like to lie beside him facing him or lie on top of him and reach down. When you feel him START to get hard that is when you start moving down with slow wet kisses. Don’t ignore his nipples. Most men love when you lick their nipples even though they will NEVER admit it. Tease him just a little but don’t play games. Stop when you get to the pubic mound and:
- MAKE SURE YOUR MOUTH IS WET
Nobody likes a dry blow job, the wetter, the better. Now don’t just sit there and drool on it, but understand the point of a blow job is to mimic the motions and the wetness of actual sex. Start by circling the head with your tongue, Again I stress, make sure your mouth is really wet. Don’t just put it all in your mouth at once, you want to work up to that, circle the head, still use your hands to give him slow long strokes. Pay attention to the noises that he makes. When you hit certain spots, he will react so pay attention to those places.
- WHILE HIS DICK IS SEMI HARD, MAKE SURE YOU PREPARE YOURSELF FOR THE DEEP THROAT.
Once he is stimulated, start using your mouth to work all the way down the shaft. Use tension by closing you mouth. NO TEETH. Let go of his dick with your hands and go all the way down. I know not everyone can deep throat BUT one way you can fake it is by keeping your fist wrapped around the base of his dick and going down as far as you can. Make sure your hand is wet with saliva so it mimics the same feeling. If you can deep throat, this is when you hit him with the tease. Do it once or twice. Make sure your speed is slow and steady. Also make sure you are still listening to his body. If he starts to move his hips, match his motion. Speed up as he allows you to. I also like to reach up and place his hand on the top of my head so he has some control too.
- SPEED CONTROL IS KEY.
You should always start off slow and sensual. Look into his eyes. Make him look at you, that way it is easier to tell what he likes versus what he does not like. Don’t go too fast because that really does not give him the time to really warm up to it but don’t go too slow because he will get anxious and try to fuck a hole in your esophagus. As you feel his dick getting harder, pick up speed. I like to speed up and slow down in intervals to make sure that he is still anticipating it.
- MAKE LOTS OF NOISE. BUT NOT CORNY NOISES.
Gag on it (Not for real but make the noise.) Slurp. Spit (only if he is into that cause if not, it can get weird) MOAN. Masturbate. Make it seem like this shit is the SEXIEST MOST ENJOYABLE THING YOU HAVE EVER DONE IN YOUR ENTIRE SEX LIFE. Sex is 80% mental. You want him to know that you love it. Talk to him. (Only briefly, you don’t want to lose your hard work) and ask him HOW he likes it. Don’t forget his balls (ONLY if he is into that because again, it can get weird)
After that, you either have sex or he will cum. I suggest swallowing only because it is neat and cleaner to me and I don’t like cum in my hair. Either way just know that sucking dick is the ultimate foreplay. Do you know how much power YOU have down there? It takes trust to allow the woman to do what she wants to do. Oral before sex makes the dick harder and usually makes the orgasm a lot more intense for him.
Hope this helps!!