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Who is your wifey??

March 3, 2010

Okay well let me just start by saying I HATE the word wifey. That is another blog, another day….

On to the matter at hand. I have a lot of male friends and when they talk about the woman they want to marry (or live with forever) they always paint a picture of this virginal, beautiful woman who has only been with one man before he met her and knows none of his friends.

This is SO unrealistic. I point this out to all of them. But they NEVER listen. But hey, thats a man for you lol.

Okay so I will give you a scenario. I live in Raleigh, NC. Raleigh is not the smallest town but everybody knows each other. If you know one group, chances are you have met another group. With social media sites like FaceBook and Twitter, #POW! The world becomes EVEN smaller.

If you meet a chick here, chances are she has slept with someone you know, not because she is a ho, or slut or any other derogatory term you can think of, just because there are not many men in this town. This applies MOST of the time. Not all of the time, some woman are just dick / attention feens and fuck anything with a dick, but hey thats also another blog, another time.

Now moving on….I really want men to realize that women are not just waiting around for them to decide they are the one…In the meantime, we live real lives with real sex and real relationships. If you are NOT a virgin, then how do you expect her to be? Nobody wants to think of it like this but your girl could have been somebody’s Jump off or SideJoint…would you look at her differently? Or would you just say fuck it, we all grown and shit happens?

Men are funny. They want a woman who can do a back handspring from the bedroom door to land squarely on their dick but they also want a woman without many miles. You can’t have it all brother.

Boys and girls, my point for today is, let the past be the past. People should not always be judged on their past if it is your future together that matters….

One Comment leave one →
  1. March 10, 2010 6:13 pm

    I couldn’t have said it better myself!!! Men always have double standards.

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