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March 31, 2010

First and foremost, shout out to @Chaundon for the inspiration of this topic…

On his Online show #Nignorance  (check his twitter page, show comes on livestream OR U-Stream pretty regularly) The age-old topic of why men cheat was on the table for discussion. So let me beat this dead horse with a new broom tonight.

So basically, Chaundon said that if a woman is taking care of EVERYTHING at home and her man is fucked, fed, and overall satisfied, he will not leave nor will he cheat.

Well if you are gonna cheat, be smarter than THIS dumb ass.

Well as much as I respect Chaundon and agree with him about 89% of the time Im gonna have to disagree.

Here is my humble theory:

First off, let’s explore this idea of a woman doing ‘everything to keep her man happy’ Hell, we don’t even have to be talking about men here…just people in general. So let me backtrack that by saying Let’s explore this idea of if your partner is happy they will not cheat.

Think again my sweets!

Human nature is to NEVER be satisfied. Blame it on the false hope of the American dream. So here you have a man (or woman) doing all that they think will make their mate happy. They cook, clean and fuck like a pornstar….They support their mate fully. They care. Shit they will even iron your draws.  There is always going to be that ONE person who cant handle that. Mark my words. Betchu that person will say they are being smothered or something else crazy!!

In my humble and usually correct opinion I don’t think cheating has SHIT to do with the other person most of the time.

Sometimes men cheat because they LOVE the chase of the new woman…That shit is addictive like crack to some men (See my daughter’s father) and they just cant get enough of the PROCESS of meeting a girl, talking to a girl, and eventually getting the pantydraws like a human game of chess…..

Sometimes men cheat because there is NO pussy like NEW pussy. EVERY man loves the thrill of new pussy. This is a fact. That needs no more explanation

and lastly sometimes men cheat well, just BECAUSE.

So lastly. I think cheating is a personal issue. I also think that there will NEVER be ONE single reason why all men cheat. I honestly think that if we stopped putting SO much emphasis on being sexually faithful and MORE emphasis on finding a partner that we connect with 100% we would not have to have this tired ass conversation SO much. But hey thats another blog coming later this week….

So thanks for reading ppl! Happy Orgasms.

3 Comments leave one →
  1. March 31, 2010 2:53 am

    As always sis well executed… raw & uncut! It is a conversation that will always stand the test of time. At the end of the day, cheating is breaking the rules that were set for the relationship…whatever they may be. If you set no rules assuming they know, you can’t say you were cheated on…you cheated yourself! Keep it up mama! Love ya! xoxoxo

  2. March 31, 2010 3:09 am

    and there it is…

  3. June 17, 2010 11:41 am

    Very good observation, Bre….

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