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The misconception of love.

August 17, 2011

This weekend I had a lot of time to reflect. A LOT of time and I have come to this conclusion.

We live in a ‘fuck first, ask questions later’ world.

Personally, I am tired of hearing the complains of men and women who did not do any research to their partner before deciding to be with them. Equally, I am tired of hearing people so miserable because they just decided to settle on good sex.

People don’t date anymore… there is a reason for that. Women don’t ask. Men don’t give.

I decided long ago NEVER to be one of those women. If I am seriously interested in you then there has to be a dating process. I don’t expect you to be commited to me during this dating process, it is kind of like a getting to know you period. This is the part people skip. Now, all you have to do is text consecutively, maybe see eachother once or twice and the fucking commences… I just cant get with that.

People are falling in ‘love’ with people they are just fucking. How can you really love someone that you do not know? TIME is not a factor in getting to know someone. Just because yall been kicking it for six months does not mean you know them. Knowing someone is taking the time to actually talk and even more important taking the time to OBSERVE.

When you fuck first, and its good…. you start making up excuses for the person not being what you want them to be. ESPECIALLY women. He does not take you anywhere… he is not romantic enough… etc etc…. BUT what they fail to realize is by fucking him before you really knew what type of person he is you have signed a contract to take him AS IS… IF he even wants you.

I know these words are harsh but they are true. I’m not gonna give you the rundown of how important you are and how your goods have to be held until you find the right one because in this society… it may or may not go down like that. What I AM saying is that if you are serious about this person, and you really care, make sure that they are on the same page as you before you lay down and share the same bed.

Please note this does NOT apply to anyone that you are not trying to date seriously. In that case,  just be honest and don’t expect anything.

Bye Loves 🙂

One Comment leave one →
  1. August 17, 2011 6:55 pm

    Awesome post! I co-sign 100%. People really don’t know how to enjoy the single life….

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